Three chicks on the state of big-city dating
I stop by for takeout (no bread) after an event and eat about half of it there. The only space available is at a larger table. While I’m waiting for the meal, there are three chicks, one of them in the...
View ArticleSex skills for guys: psychology, preparation, and practice
Why’s there not more talk about the specifics of sex? I have some ideas… RedCoco says, Pickup seems pretty quiet on the topic of sex skills. I sense that as men we set our sexual baseline energy way...
View ArticleTough conversations. Downside of being known as a player
Tough conversations this weekend. I’m having some challenges making some of the changes I want to make, and I am suffering some right now because I have been a player for a long time and have a player...
View Article“The mom having an affair because her husband did first”
The Brooklyn Mom Having an Affair Because Her Husband Had One First. This piece illustrates the dangers of affairs and non-monogamy. I see guys online suggesting that it’s okay for a guy to have a...
View Article“Picking up girls” skills and “long-term relationships” skills
I’ve said this in some different places but not headlined with it: “Picking up girls” skills and “long-term relationships” skills overlap, but there’s a lot of non-overlap too. For picking up chicks,...
View ArticleAsking a girl too many questions, date structure
I’m ambivalent about Blackdragon’s work… some of it is good, and one real player I talk to has learned a lot from him, and BD was talking about being a player and consciously using non-monogamy before...
View ArticleThreesome management. How to do and arrange FFM and MFM
Some people think threesomes “just happen” and while some threesomes can, guys who do non-monogamy look for the principles and patterns underlying threesomes (besides drugs and circumstance… not my...
View ArticleWomen hate the demystification of romance: commodities, artisans, and the game
Women hate game but simultaneously women hate guys with no game. Players look at this and initially think it makes no sense, because on the surface it doesn’t; women should want guys to learn game and...
View ArticleYoylo’s first sex club experience [FR]
If you follow me on Twitter you may have seen Yoylo… this is his first field report on the blog, and follow his adventures on Twitter too. I like this story because it illustrates the dangers of not...
View ArticleThe player’s journey blog
The player’s journey blog. If you’re a player you should write one. It’s been much more interesting than I would have thought, especially hearing from other players. If you write online, your blog...
View ArticleTypes of girls and dangers of most seduction techniques
Redpill and seduction communities are focused on hot young party girls. And that’s fine! Great, even. I’ve spent loads of time chasing and attempting to f**k and sometimes even f**king these girls, so...
View ArticleWhat do I mean by “levels” of game/seduction discussion?
Guys have been asking what I mean when I talk about the “level” a given piece of advice operates at. There are at least two ladders of levels, maybe more. There’s the discussion/pattern ladder, and the...
View ArticleJust listen to the music, “bad boys bring heaven to you”
At the gym I heard an annoying song with lyrics very relevant to the game community, Heaven by Julia Michaels They say “All good boys go to heaven” But bad boys bring heaven to you It’s automatic, it’s...
View ArticleSocial dancing, social skills, and the game
Some guys try partner dancing (salsa, swing, etc.) as a component of their game, and I’m one of them, but I’ve found the results to be mixed… whether you should do dance classes depends a lot on you....
View ArticleDon’t trust stupid Internet financial advice. Compounding interest is real
It seems I have turned into the “anti-marketer” police on the Internet, first about location independent businesses and now about the time-value of money. A guy on Twitter spit out a retarded tweet, If...
View Article“The stripper with the sugar daddy”
“The stripper with the sugar daddy” is my version of the title… let’s be real here, she’s no computer scientist… she does have a typical alpha/beta boyfriend dynamic going on, though… “I’m leery of his...
View ArticleBasics like asking the girl out and escalation
For most guys, 97% or more, it’s still about the basics… look at this woman’s story… I’m omitting some of it, but the whole thing is on Twitter. at some point during the courtship dance, you DO need to...
View ArticleCombining non-monogamy, game, and sex clubs to unlock abundance and...
A player I know says he was talking to a wing about the sex clubs and some of his ecosystems, It seems that the feeling now for me is that when you channel a girl’s promiscuous side, they are...
View ArticleWhy nurses or teachers are positive signs for longer-term relationships
Hard-core players who want to f**k around can ignore this one, but I mentioned to a player that teachers and nurses are good female occupations for long-term partners. Why? smart men looking for a...
View ArticleHow she behaves towards other people is one day how she’ll behave towards you
How she behaves towards other people is one day how she’ll behave towards you. Is she mean to other people? One day she’s going to be mean to you, probably in the same way she’s mean to others. Does...
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